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Sea Goddess Healing Arts Soul Broadcast ~ February 2024 ~ Loving Yourself Through a Dark Night of the Soul

Updated: May 1

Welcome to February's Soul Broadcast!

Our collective intention is to share with you topics and information relevant to current energies, the Healing Arts, tools and modalities, and whatever our Souls are wishing to share with you every month.

This month's theme is Loving Yourself Through a Dark Night of the Soul.

We hope you love and find this monthly offering helpful, and a great resource in your own healing journey.

Thank you for tuning into your hearts and our collective Soul space.

All specials/coupon codes are highlighted in yellow.


No One is Coming to Save You:

5 Ways to Love Yourself Through the Dark Nights of the Soul

by Mandee Elam

(Medicine Woman of the Soul/Co-Founder and GIC at Sea Goddess Healing Arts)

If you are a conscious being on the path of becoming the best version of yourself, you're going to go through several dark nights of the soul. These are deaths of your ego. Things you thought you were going to be or do or become. Ways of being that no longer serve you, slip out of your fingers faster than sand. It's like someone coming up behind you and jack chopping you by the throat while knocking your feet out from under you at the same time. Not fun, but we all go through these dark nights as we ascend. The dark nights can last a few days, a few weeks, or a few seasons. So how do we hold space for ourselves?

1. Humor. The angels and the universe have your back. Though it feels horrible and is often sad and heartbreaking, funny things happen, and there are always silver linings that we can laugh at. One of the quickest ways to healing is through laughter. When you're in a dark night there's really nowhere to go but up. Once you can loosen up and be a little lighter with yourself the stagnant energies start moving in your vessel on your behalf. Just breathe and laugh. Find the humor.

2. Ask for Help. No one is going to be there to save you, but you. If you need help, be brave enough to ask for it. Sometimes part of our ego death is letting ourselves be vulnerable in an ultra independent world. Asking for help can feel like nails on a chalkboard to some people. Sometimes it takes some guts to get over that. I promise you, if you ask others and especially if you ask your angels for help, they are going to show up. 

3. Trust. Practice trust. Know that even though this is a super dark time and you don't know how you're going to get through it, this is happening for you. These dark nights are created to wake us and to shake us. To move us into places that we are not comfortable going to on our own. If we allow ourselves to answer our soul's truest calls, it's going to lead us to our truest path. If you're brave enough to trust and to walk, you will be rewarded tenfold. Trust baby.

4. Love. True love is an energy of non-judgment and acceptance. The more you can forgive yourself, love yourself and truly hold space for yourself, the quicker you will move through your dark night. The more you can love the broken pieces, the more you can find love in the shitty situations. The more love you find the more potent the dark night will be for you. When all else fails and you don't know what else to do, just love and be love. Breathe and love.

5. Nourish. Again, no one in the world is coming to save you but you. No one is going to feed you, water you, or grow you, but you. The only one who can actually take care of themselves and nourish themselves is you. So even on your darkest day when you don't want to crawl out of bed, you need to take a deep breath, drink water and water yourself. You need to make teas and soups and foods that bring you joy and nourishment. You need to move your body and allow your body's movement to nourish your soul. So much energy gets stagnant in our vessels. If we do not move it, our emotional energy becomes stuck as well. While going through a dark night, make sure you eat healthy food and exercise each day, no matter how much you don't feel like it. Even if it's just something short and sweet. Give your own vessel and soul the fighting chance. No one is coming to save you but you.

As always, if you wish to hold so space with me and would like to use my 50% off coupon, the code is "Mandeelive" 🤍✨.


Looking UP in Awe and Wonder

The Plutonic Process

Poem and Pluto Resources

by Ursula Duffy

(Co-Founder and GOO at Sea Goddess Healing Arts, Professional Astrologer and Certified Aromatherapist/Founder, Ursa Alchemy)

Image from the film What Dreams May Come

The Plutonic Process

A dark pool’s Edge

is a threshold

a crossroads

it’s curious



unknown and a little sexy.

Echoes of Soul are faint and inaudible,

experiencing them requires diving deeply.

Diving deeply can be a choice,


sometimes life’s push.

It matters not the method

by which the pool is entered,

what matters is being inside

meeting oneself there

embracing oneself there

inside the imaginal realm,

into the unknown depths

inside of one’s



        the Underneath, the Roots of one’s being.

The journey within requires





Brutal Honesty



and Surrender

Breathing underwater for as long as it takes.

Destructive forces pick at

and peel away

still-attached scabs

untouched layers

revealing secrets deeply known

yet still hidden,

discovered and cherished

to become parts

of the reconstruction

oneself reassembled

marinating and congealing

resurfacing anew.

Bolder. Wiser. Familiar yet Unfamiliar. Metamorphosed. Purified. Alchemized.

Dead. Reborn.

Remember, Love, allow your new parts to dry

before you fly.

Pluto Resources

Pluto Card from Starcodes Astro Oracle by Heather Roan Robbins

Pluto Card Guidance:

"Pluto is the modern ruler of Scorpio and is a powerful planetoid that takes 248 years to traverse the zodiac. Pluto and Charon--the largest of its five moons--circle each other and create a binary system. Most myths connected to Pluto, God of the underworld, have two major characters: the one who descends into the underworld to return reborn, and the one who either sends souls down to the underworld or greets them on arrival. From Pluto and Proserpina, to Seth and Osiris, and Inanna and Ereshkigal, both sides of these myths--the use and abuse of power, and the willingness to be reborn again into their empowered divine self--describe Pluto's influence. Pluto was also Lord of mining, retrieving valuables from deep within the earth."

"Action: Pluto calls for three actions: first, to dip deep; second, to be willing to transform; and third, to use power wisely."

"Pluto calls you to drill down, dig up what is worthy and bring it to the surface, then rinse away the dirt and uncover the gold. Bring up riches whenever you dig deep into your soul's work."

"Notice obsessions and neuroses--these signs of stress must be listened to and healed, but don't allow them to control you. Pluto reminds you that you can't hold on to the past, but you can take care of yourself. To begin this work, you may have to let go of an old form, as a caterpillar must to become a butterfly. Mourn what you've left behind, then get curious about what is about to arrive."

"Examine the power dynamics of this situation. Neither give yours away nor misuse your power over others. Step out of a power struggle and into self-empowerment."

"Challenge: Pluto's shadow side can bring up obsession, depression, mortality, and grief. Pluto plays hardball, so get a guide for this realm if needed."

"Spiritual Gift: Pluto asks you--in the face of life and death--why are you here? This isn't a rhetorical question. Strip down to the essentials and come back to what really matters to find the answer."

Astro-Weather Check 1/24/2024 - Leo Full Moon and Pluto in Aquarius

More support, guidance and offerings from Ursula related to Pluto and the Plutonic Process are coming. This will be the theme threaded throughout all episodes of Becoming Chiron - Season 4. Stay Tuned!

Ursula's Coupons/Special Offers:

Your natal/birth chart holds many keys and secrets to your personality, characteristics and challenges. It's your personal map, guidebook and lesson plan for your life! Gain insight into YOU with a natal chart reading. Use coupon code DARKNIGHT to save $22 on a Birth Day Sky Reading! If we've already worked together, let's check-in! Check-In Readings are 30 minutes or 60 minutes, and are already discounted! In-person readings are also available. Click/tap here for details.

Happy Birthday Aquarius and Pisces!

Have you ever had a Solar Return Astrology Reading?!

It provides an in-depth forecast of the energy and themes of your

personal year ahead.

Use coupon code SOLARRETURN to save $22 on the Sun's Return Reading!

Special shoutout and thank you to Beth for gifting me the Starcodes Astro Oracle deck!

From my deep Plutonic Process to Yours,


Deep Freeze Reading Special Extended!

by Lexi Duquette

(Mermaid in the Mountains)

Lexi will return with content in our next Soul Broadcast. In case you missed her contribution, Dear Journal..., last month, you can read it here.

Special 33-minute "Deep Freeze Tarot Reading/Soul Session" extended for February! $33.33!


25% Savings on Oracle/Energy Readings and Custom Personal Orgone Soul Dragon Offers Extended!

by Jess Himmel

(Modern Day Mary Poppins, Intuitive Artist (Orgone Original Works) & Energy Reader/Medium)

Jess will return with content in our next Soul Broadcast. In case you missed her contribution, Beauty in the Frost, Pausing to Reflect, last month, you can read it here.

Links are below to see the collection and order your Custom Personal Soul Dragon. Book with code JESSGRATITUDE at checkout and save 25% on a 60 minute Oracle/Energy Reading.

Thank you all so much for your support of Sea Goddess Healing Arts!



Custom Personal Soul Dragons are $65 including shipping inside the Continental US (International shipping is individually calculated).

Please allow up to 10 business days for creation and shipping (inside US).

Below are some new examples of the growing Dragon Family!


Tickets are still available!

The retreat is now half full and we've added Day Passes for Saturday, 3/2. Flash sale available until Sunday, February 11th at midnight (11:59 pm ET)!

Join the Soul Garden Membership and save 20% ($111) even after all special savings/sales expire. Please share with loved ones and friends you know would want to join us!


We hope you've enjoyed this month's theme and all of our contributions. Wishing you a February filled with renewal!

Thank you for being here with us!


With Love, Light & Gratitude,

Mandee, Ursula, Lexi and Jess


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